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Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

Posted on: May 15, 2011 4:57 pm
Edited on: May 15, 2011 5:47 pm
 
Phoenix Suns president Rick Welts reveals he is a homosexual in a New York Times article. Posted by Ben Golliver. rick-welts

Rick Welts, the president of the Phoenix Suns and a long-time NBA employee, publicly revealed that he is a homosexual for the first time in an article in the New York Times on Sunday.

Welts says he lived in secrecy for decades because of the stigma attached to homosexuality in the world of professional sports.
“This is one of the last industries where the subject is off limits,” said Mr. Welts. “Nobody’s comfortable in engaging in a conversation.”
ESPN.com.com reports that Welts' admission makes him a trailblazer, noting that he is "believed to be the first man in a prominent position in men's sports who has declared his homosexuality."
So why, after all these years, did Welts decide to come forward? The Times writes... 
Mr. Welts explained that he wants to pierce the silence that envelops the subject of homosexuality in men’s team sports. He wants to be a mentor to gay people who harbor doubts about a sports career, whether on the court or in the front office. Most of all, he wants to feel whole, authentic. 

Perhaps the most illuminating aspect of this admission is that two prominent NBA figures -- NBA commissioner David Stern and Phoenix Suns All-Star guard Steve Nash -- both were well aware of Mr. Welts' homosexuality but had not discussed it with him directly. In Stern's case, he showed silent, indirect support. In Nash's case, he simply thought everyone already knew that Welts was gay. That both of those reactions existed shows just how complicated living his life in silence must have been for Welts.

While he has risen to the top of his profession, Welts likely still felt like an outsider in a very personal way. Stern commented that he hoped "the world will find this [admission] unremarkable," but clearly this will be a remarkable moment for Welts himself.

It wouldn't be surprising at all if his admission, and the peace of mind it will likely provide going forward, inspires other executives in similar situations to come forward.

Comments

Since: Oct 31, 2006
Posted on: May 17, 2011 3:38 pm
 

Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

No, but who cares; keep it to himself. And the sweep thing... that hurts! ;-)



Since: Nov 12, 2006
Posted on: May 16, 2011 6:50 pm
 

Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

Tell that to Mark Foley.



Since: Jul 16, 2007
Posted on: May 16, 2011 3:04 pm
 

Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

Well, I'm not sure about that particular family.  But yeah, there's a reason I left the bible belt as soon as I could.  That brings up a good point.  The main reason I moved to Oregon and a significant factor in choosing... well, first architecture and secondly nursing... as a career is wanting to live in a place and be in a career where it actually IS ok to be gay.  That is one reason I admire Rick Welts for coming out.  He's living in a very conservative place and working in a very closed-minded industry (the professional sports industry).  It actually does take a lot of courage to do that.



Since: Oct 22, 2007
Posted on: May 16, 2011 2:51 pm
 

Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

pt1404: I've seen a hateful family deny a gay man visitation rights to be with his dying partner.


The sad irony is they probably consider themselves Christians.



Since: Jul 16, 2007
Posted on: May 16, 2011 2:25 pm
 

Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

Not all gay people insist on a blanket societal endorsement of gay marriage.  I think most gay people want some sort of societal acceptance that will protect their partner's rights and benefits in life and death the way marriage does for heterosexual married couples.  I work in the healthcare industry and I've seen a hateful family deny a gay man visitation rights to be with his dying partner.  It's not right.  Whatever you call it...  marriage, civil-unions, designated legal guest (how romantic!), personally I think it's clear that there needs to be some legal revisions to the current system.




Since: Oct 15, 2006
Posted on: May 16, 2011 1:52 pm
 

Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

pt1404, let me ask you this as a kind of thought experiment.  I'm just curious what people think.  What if everyone was able to designate one other person as his or her legal "guest" in the same way you get a wedding invitation and it says "John Doe and guest?"  This could apply to married persons, spinster sisters living together, friends who are each single, etc.  The legal rights you outline would be designated for that one person.  Would this mollify the gay community on the marriage thing, or would they still insist on a blanket societal endorsement of gay marriage? 



Since: Oct 15, 2006
Posted on: May 16, 2011 1:42 pm
 

Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

I just googled your link "Homosexual Movement 1987 “Overhauling of Straight America” and it lays out a clear agenda, and it's being played out brilliantly.  People need to remember when they read the article that it was printed in a publication catering to homosexuals over twenty years ago. 




Since: Jul 16, 2007
Posted on: May 16, 2011 1:40 pm
 

Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

Marriage Rights and Benefits

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Tax Benefits

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  • Taking bereavement leave if your spouse or one of your spouse's close relatives dies.

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  • Visiting your spouse in a hospital intensive care unit or during restricted visiting hours in other parts of a medical facility.
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  • Consenting to after-death examinations and procedures.
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  • Living in neighborhoods zoned for "families only."
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Consumer Benefits

  • Receiving family rates for health, homeowners', auto, and other types of insurance.
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  • Suing a third person for wrongful death of your spouse and loss of consortium (loss of intimacy).
  • Suing a third person for offenses that interfere with the success of your marriage, such as alienation of affection and criminal conversation (these laws are available in only a few states).
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Posted on: May 16, 2011 1:04 pm
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Since: Mar 8, 2008
Posted on: May 16, 2011 12:58 pm
 

Rick Welts, Suns president, reveals he is gay

If only the homophobes knew how many pictures of gay athletes they had on their wall during their youth.  But then they wouldn't be ignorant 1890's-thinking fools.



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