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The Second Coming of My Virginity

Posted on: May 10, 2008 12:24 pm
 

It had been 10 months for me.  Now granted I haven't felt up to it for the last 6 or 7 months.  But even then I was starting to wonder if I was going to ever have an opportunity to enjoy lovemaking again.  But alas, I have met a very nice man and have been spending quite abit of time with him for the last several weeks - explanation for my absence around here.  Anyway, it just sorta happened and it was a huge relief for me in many ways.  The obvious one, of course.  But just getting back into the saddle without my bridle (breasts) and riding the horse again - sorry for the metaphor - was strange and awkward - but he was very patient and gentile and what a ride I gave him!!!

So I guess I have lost my second virginity.....   Nice!!  Oh so nice indeed.

So I want to know.....what is the longest stretch of abstinence you have gone through, what was the reason and what did it feel like to get back on the carnival ride?  I know my stomach had butterflies.

AV (is back)

 

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Since: Dec 31, 2007
Posted on: May 13, 2008 1:02 pm
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

I took 2 years off from sex. For me at the time I was going through women pretty quick for my own selfish needs and then morality caught up to me. So I took some time off from chasing skirt and did some serious introspection and in the end came out a better person for it.

Gay I know.




Since: Feb 16, 2008
Posted on: May 13, 2008 10:17 am
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Longest stretch was 2 years.  Got crushed and was waiting for her to come back.  Want an idiot I was!!!



Since: Oct 19, 2007
Posted on: May 13, 2008 9:39 am
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

I dunno. I really don't. I suppose that circular impression I had in my wallet in my college days speaks for itself. Seriously, I tossed the wallet when it became really noticeable. I didn't really want the questions, esp. from the dad.

Trust me, your 50's isn't exactly peak time. The focus for us is more on quality than quantity.

I tell my wife sex is as vital to existance as food, water, and even air. I don't think she quite bought into that philosophy. I've had pretty long married stretches gasping for air, at least as long as your 10 months. lol

Welcome back! Even if you still can't drive a car, at least your able to ride a horse. HAHA.




Since: Oct 19, 2007
Posted on: May 13, 2008 9:28 am
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

I've been on fishing trips with the guys that lasted more than 4 days,

Badger, Sounds like you agree it would be a bad idea to go on a fishing trip with guys that couldn't hold out longer than four days. No thank you. The only thing I want to catch on a fishing trip is fish! lol




Since: Feb 24, 2008
Posted on: May 13, 2008 2:24 am
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

AV,

Glad to see that u are back in the swing of things.  My longest drought since the age of 18 has been 2 weeks (now 29 yrs old), but I always had at least myself to keep the tension away.  Before that it was hit and a lot of misses.  I guess I was like Carlos Pena, a lot of strikeouts, but some big home runs every now and then.




Since: Oct 14, 2006
Posted on: May 12, 2008 2:59 pm
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

13 years, 6 months and 3 days and still counting ......  partner had major heart surgery that prevents it.  Looks like matters may have to be taken into my own hands!

I think it is WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY....overdue...Ti

me to plan a trip to Vegas...and in a hurry!!



Since: Mar 2, 2007
Posted on: May 12, 2008 12:33 pm
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

13 years, 6 months and 3 days and still counting ......  partner had major heart surgery that prevents it.  Looks like matters may have to be taken into my own hands!



Since: Apr 1, 2008
Posted on: May 12, 2008 10:06 am
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Welcome back AmV!

In many ways.

The longest stretch I had was 8 years. It involved a bad breakup moving several times and then the fear that accompanied  a layoff (pun intended) for that long. I didn't really intend for it to last that long, but when I settled in one area and started looking again it was a totally different ballgame than I remembered. I found other things to substitute for sex, but in the end it came down to my belief that you should only have sex wth someone you care for. The strange thing is that while I was in the middle of this EXTREMELY LOOONG drought I wasn't having any luck with the opposite sex. However, once I had met someone and started dating again I suddenly was a valuable commodity again. After I started to date one woman for more than one or two dates I started having women ask me out. I tried out a couple of the others, but I eventually ended up with the woman who ended my drought. We have been married for 5 years now and thankfully the rust has never returned.

I hope the recovery is coming (again, pun intended) along nicely. As the weather starts to warm up hopefully you will be able to get out on the links. Keep on Night putting! :)

BTL

 




Since: Feb 21, 2008
Posted on: May 12, 2008 9:29 am
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Welcome back into the saddle AV.  Besides the drepressly unsexual early part of my youth (16+ a couple years), the most I've gone without is a month.  The significant other was away at the time.  We made up for it when she arrived home.  Save a horse ride a cowboy.

 

Kegger




Since: Apr 25, 2008
Posted on: May 12, 2008 9:02 am
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Wow,  10 months would feel like an eternity. I know it would kill me  . The longest I went without was about 5 months. Wife had some complications with birth of second child which caused us to cancel s*x for a period until baby was born. Longest 5 months of my life. OHHHH what a feeling to resume activities!!! Im glad you were able to get back on that horse and ride it home again!!!!!

All I can say is that he is one lucky man . Best of luck with that horse.

MW



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