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The Second Coming of My Virginity

Posted on: May 10, 2008 12:24 pm
 

It had been 10 months for me.  Now granted I haven't felt up to it for the last 6 or 7 months.  But even then I was starting to wonder if I was going to ever have an opportunity to enjoy lovemaking again.  But alas, I have met a very nice man and have been spending quite abit of time with him for the last several weeks - explanation for my absence around here.  Anyway, it just sorta happened and it was a huge relief for me in many ways.  The obvious one, of course.  But just getting back into the saddle without my bridle (breasts) and riding the horse again - sorry for the metaphor - was strange and awkward - but he was very patient and gentile and what a ride I gave him!!!

So I guess I have lost my second virginity.....   Nice!!  Oh so nice indeed.

So I want to know.....what is the longest stretch of abstinence you have gone through, what was the reason and what did it feel like to get back on the carnival ride?  I know my stomach had butterflies.

AV (is back)

 

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Since: Apr 25, 2007
Posted on: May 12, 2008 8:53 am
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

6 month droughts twice (overseas deployment on a submarine - great for single guys, rough on married guys like me).

8 month drought due to pregnancy (she had spotting that made us into monks) and recovery from pregnancy.

After the deployments there was a lot of anticipation and excitement.  After the pregnancy there was a lot of nervousness and trepidation.




Since: Oct 30, 2006
Posted on: May 12, 2008 8:42 am
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Timing on this for me is dead on AV,  I just got back on the horse myself... wait, I am the horse.

At any rate... the stretch encompassed 20 monthes. The reasons were various, but I suppose it began when I moved back to the ancestral home to take care of Mom in her last year. Followed by a move to a new area and a job that is to say the least, consuming. Just didn't feel like I had the time for a woman, and to be truthful, I was really enjoying the freedom of being single. Golf when I want, eat what I want, clean up around the house when I want, etc. LMAO, but it was a kind of peaceful & sedate existence.

But, I met this gal through work a few weeks ago. She's considerably younger than I, full of attitude and energy, and she made it clear from the start that I was on her short list. It really wasn't even my decision to make - she just showed up at my bar on Saturday looking too good to ignore and told me we were 'hanging out' that night. A few Captain Morgan's later we found our way to my place, and the saddle was on. She didn't put on the harness... and this horse was encouraged to run free. I did.

Getting back in the game? AWESOME! I hadn't forgotten how much I enjoy sex, but I had become a bit complacent and comfortable. Funny how the mind conjures up juicy rationalizations to accomodate our situations. I actually performed pretty well, the rust(?) came off easily and this old horse ran well over the 2 mile mark... my jockey had an enjoyable ride. A plus, she is a single digit player... we're teeing it up this afternoon, and then heading to the 19th hole for a post round Captain. The 20th hole is the only one I'm thinking about right now...

Glad you're back too, AV. I must admit I'm a bit sad that it wasn't me that led you back to the track 




Since: Jan 15, 2008
Posted on: May 10, 2008 8:37 pm
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Understood re: the "self-pleasuring," but I've always had a girl/woman in my life to assist me with my "issue(?)."  Serial monogamist, I suppose, with some freakish one-nighters thrown in.


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Since: Jan 24, 2007
Posted on: May 10, 2008 5:00 pm
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Since: Oct 11, 2006
Posted on: May 10, 2008 4:35 pm
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Eight years for a variety of reasons.  Grad school, Residency, I didn't date anyone I thought I really wanted to. 

Getting back on the horse was AWESOME and I remembered what I had been missing out on.....I will never go for a prolonged time again




Since: Mar 20, 2008
Posted on: May 10, 2008 3:18 pm
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Four days! - You're not Asexual are you EG?  Or is that monosexual!!



Since: Jan 15, 2008
Posted on: May 10, 2008 2:28 pm
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Term: 15 years.  Reason: Youth/Puberty.

Since then......?  Four days?

 




Since: Jan 21, 2008
Posted on: May 10, 2008 12:40 pm
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

Glad you're back, av.  I've gone 12 months before, and I almost went crazy over it.



Since: Mar 20, 2008
Posted on: May 10, 2008 12:37 pm
 

The Second Coming of My Virginity

One week - my period - wicked!!!

I will call you later AV

Smorgie



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