Gay Team Mate in the Locker Room

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Just like us straight men don't find ALL women attractive, gay men don't find all men attractive.  

If that even matters...just because its for some doesn't mean a flamer is never going to be attracted to anyone in the locker room.  I'm sure unnatractive women aren't just going to let dudes in their locker rooms because they're not attracted to them. The attraction isn't the issue..the possibilty of violating privacy is.

The attraction isn't the issue..the possibilty of violating privacy is.

Actually, FYRANTZ, it sounds like your personal insecurity is more the issue here than attraction. 

 A locker room itself is already a violation of your privacy it doesn't take a gay person to have that happen.  The fact of the matter is if you didn't already know someone, in the locker room, was gay you probably never would.

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If that even matters...just because its for some doesn't mean a flamer is never going to be attracted to anyone in the locker room.  I'm sure unnatractive women aren't just going to let dudes in their locker rooms because they're not attracted to them. The attraction isn't the issue..the possibilty of violating privacy is.

Well said and exactly right.  Everyone is so overly concerned about the rights of gays, that nobody has even stopped for a second to think about the rights of heterosexuals. 

Players should be given the right to shower without having to speculate whether or not a teammate is attracted to the sight of them naked or not.   

If that even matters...just because its for some doesn't mean a flamer is never going to be attracted to anyone in the locker room.  I'm sure unnatractive women aren't just going to let dudes in their locker rooms because they're not attracted to them. The attraction isn't the issue..the possibilty of violating privacy is.

Well said and exactly right.  Everyone is so overly concerned about the rights of gays, that nobody has even stopped for a second to think about the rights of heterosexuals. 

Players should be given the right to shower without having to speculate whether or not a teammate is attracted to the sight of them naked or not.   

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Well said!  If being ridicules is being well said your right.

Players should be given the right to shower without having to speculate whether or not a teammate is attracted to the sight of them naked or not.   

Whenever I am a member of a gym, the gay guys always stare at me in the shower.  

It does, or can get old, if there are too many.


Not to say I blame them for staring at my bod.  

Players should be given the right to shower without having to speculate whether or not a teammate is attracted to the sight of them naked or not.

 ...And, there's the most stupid post I've read today.

Why would a player "have to" speculate if someone finds them attractive? If it's weighing that heavily on their mind, then they've got much bigger problems than a gay teammate.